Conscious Uncoupling – Post Trauma in Relationships | Safety, Stability & Self Love Wellness Event
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Published on Jan 9, 2024
We’ve all had to deal with emotional baggage of past lovers, but typically fail to see what we are carrying ourselves. Conscious uncoupling involves the process of “breaking up” without falling apart, especially when trauma is involved. In this workshop we will learn how to recover from heartbreak and disappointment, along with being provided with tools to transform and grow.
Presented by Devin D’Shae.
Devin believes that human sexuality should be incorporated into the holistic approach of wellbeing. With both personal and professional experience in power exchange, gender identity and expression and ethically, non monogamous ways to exist in relationships, her passion lies in exploring all the alternative ways that one can show up in the world.
Devin graduated with her Masters in Mental Health Counseling at Long Island University and has experience working with diverse populations, ranging from adolescents to adults. She is most passionate about providing an explorative yet safe place for adult workers to achieve their highest selves, without judgement, guilt or shame.
She takes a collaborative and playful approach to treatment and is excited to guide you through the many discoveries of self.
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