Sex After Trauma: Why it’s Difficult, and What to Do About It with Alicia Graham
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Published on Aug 12, 2022
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When sexual difficulty occurs after a sexual trauma, it’s easy to understand why; but what about a car accident, natural disaster, or other non-sexual trauma? These too can impact our sexual experience and the reasons why, and way forward, can seem amorphous and difficult to navigate without a roadmap through this unfamiliar territory.
In Sex After Trauma, we’ll explore the the biological connection between sexuality and post-traumatic stress along with applicable strategies to regulate the nervous system and move towards a sexual experience that feels both safe and connective. Participants can expect to walk away with a greater understanding of the relationship between sexual response and trauma response as well as tools to use both alone and with a partner to embody a more pleasurable sexual experience after living through trauma.
About Alicia – Alicia Graham is a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor (RTC) who is passionate about creating a more inclusive world. Specializing in supporting sex workers, LGBTQ2S+ individuals and survivors of trauma, she cultivates an inclusive, safe and anti-oppresive space for all. Alicia is registered with The Association of Cooperative Counselling Therapists of Canada and holds a diploma in Transpersonal Counselling Psychology from Clearmind International. Alicia employs a multi-modal approach drawing on person-centered therapy, family systems, Gestalt, Gottman method, Somatic therapy, and trauma informed practices. In addition to her counselling work, she has 14 years of experience using Non Violent Communication to offer mediation, workshops, and practice groups, focusing on leadership and systems of oppression. Alicia has an open-minded, accepting approach and believes that no struggle is too big, or too small.
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