Maintaining Your Sexual Autonomy: Communication, Needs, and Boundaries with Kez Mayers
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Published on Aug 15, 2022
Sex and Self | Sponsored by Strip Chat, Clips4Sale, Loyalfans.com, Erotik.com, ePlay and Fleshlight
In this presentation, Kez Mayers, MA, LMHCA, NCC will discuss ways an individual can maintain their sexual autonomy through healthy communication strategies, needs exploration, and flexible boundary setting. Kez will explore ways that sexual myths and social norms can be a barrier to maintaining sexual autonomy.
About Keziah – Do you struggle with desires, thoughts, and behaviors that you feel as though you can’t share with others for fear of shame, stigma, ignorance, or violence? Navigating the nuances of relationships, sex, sexual health, sexual identity, and gender identity can be difficult and exhausting on its own. Through open-minded, compassionate, and culturally competent care, I am committed to help clients develop tools for self-acceptance and confidence, establish values, set healthy boundaries, learn healthy communication, cultivate and nurture healthy relationships, and explore their identity and sexuality.
I have extensive experience in: treating sexual dysfunctions, addressing problematic sexual behaviors, helping couple’s with sex-related issues, helping couple’s recover from infidelity, helping couples on the brink of separation find clarity with Discernment Counseling, processing Kink-related issues, and navigating polyamorous and kink relationships.
I am a Kink-Knowledgeable Professional through the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSF). I work affirmatively with those in the sex industry from a person-centered, empowering, non-judgmental, harm reduction, and minority stress-informed perspective. I also work with those seeking help with LGBTQ related issues and provide surgery letters.
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